Hi Guys,
This is probably the hardest post that I have ever made to this site. I am just here to give you a quick update...
After numerous tests - x-rays, scans, blood tests, biopsies, consultations with many specialists and everything else in between, my father has been diagnosed with a form of lung cancer. He is in hospital (has been since Dec 24th.) and he is really having a rough go of it. We are waiting to hear what type of lung cancer he has (more results to come) before they can ascertain what form of treatment will be most effective and appropriate in treating him. One more experienced doctor has given us a poor prognosis while another younger physician reporting under him is being more optimistic about my Dad's fate. The information that we are having to sort through and process is very incredibly complex, technical and not easy to comprehend for those not schooled in the area of medicine. But we are learning as we go along and hoping that a miracle is just around the corner for my Dad's future.
This has simply been the most devastating turn of events for our family and it really feels surreal at times given the seriousness of my Dad's illness. My Dad's situation changes daily so this has us waiting with baited breath with every visit by his side, every phone call and every consultation with his physicians and nurses. Not only is he battling cancer, but he is in isolation with the MRSA virus (a potentially deadly superbug for those with suppressed immune systems) so we have to garb up in gowns, masks and gloves every time we go in to see and care for him. This infection, I'm told, is commonly found in hospitals and something that patients can contract by simply being in hospital and in contact with hospital staff while admitted for extended stays. So this has complicated Dad's situation a bit and, as a result, the staff are being even more vigilant with his vital signs and changes in status. I must say that the staff at the hospital are amazing, wonderfully supportive and extremely compassionate and caring with regards to my father's care. They are simply the best - in treating and monitoring him around the clock and ensuring that he receives everything he needs. And I know that they really love my father as a patient as he is a true gentleman and a super patient - very helpful, patient and extremely gracious with the staff. So I know that he is being well looked after and I have a great deal of confidence in the competence of the staff. Still, even as I type these words, I feel that it is all a nightmare, but unfortunately, this is one from which I cannot awake nor run away from.
All that I ask from you at this time is, if you find yourself praying, I would really appreciate if you could slip in a few thoughts for my Dad so that he can pull through this one and be able to beat this cancer. We need him in our lives. He is such a wonderful father, husband, Poppie (Grand Dad) and friend. He is too young to leave us and he has much more to experience in life before his time is up. He is a beautiful, very loving, kind, considerate, generous and funny fellow who has touched so many people with his endless ability to give to others. He is one of the most selfless individuals whom I have ever known and he has given many shirts off of his back to help so many. This is why I do not understand nor do I think it is fair that he has to go through all of this pain and suffering when he has never done any wrong to anyone in his life. It just sucks!
We are all praying for a miracle for him and being strong advocates for his care because we really do hope that we have the opportunity to continue to cherish, love and spend much more time with this beautiful man - only we want him stronger, healthier, more vibrant and more full of life than ever before. We have not given up yet. Not now.
Tina